Proverbs 18:8
The words of gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to a man’s inmost parts.
When we reflect on the words of gossip that may have hurt us; we should be mindful not to gossip about others.
Our calling as Christians are to lift people up, not tear them down. The author gives us some questions to ponder as we communicate and interact with others:
- Is gossiping the only way you connect with the camaraderie with others – is that why we gossip?
- Do you need to be the center of attention – is that why we gossip?
- Does it make you feel superior to know something negative about somebody that the other person didn’t know is that why we gossip?
- Are you envious of the person’s accomplishments – is that why we gossip?
Then conviction sets in as follows:
- Why make yourself a receiver of trash?
- What do you plan to do with the gossip?
- Are you bored with life and have nothing better to do than gossip?
Self regulation:
- When you are in the midst of gossiping, walk away or change the subject.
- Catch yourself and change your course of action to something positive instead.
The difference is that gossiping is different from sharing information that someone NEEDS to know.
If it’s frivolous and causing others to feel or perceive negative about someone else, then don’t share it.
It’s not that serious. It’s not necessary.
Watch the change in your social traffic when you put a stop to gossiping. Read more of what the Bible says about the tongue:
Proverbs 20:1-9; Psalm 19:1-4
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